"I think every woman at one point or another in their life has been called a bitch. For a long time I had a real problem with that word, I didn’t like it and I thought it was derogatory. But I’ve gotten to a place now where I’ve made a lot of peace with it. It’s been so overused and made to seem so derogatory towards woman that I’ve adapted it into an empowering feeling for myself. If I’m a bitch then I’m a bitch, if that’s what an assertive woman is to you. So I’ve sort of adapted it as a badge of honor."
(Source: therealxtina, via myuncreativeurl)
I either dress like im going to a red carpet event or like im a homeless drug addict there is no in between
(Source: whitedad, via iblowtreesnshit)
date yourself a man who knows what he wants and goes after what he wants
that knows he wants you and demonstrates that you’re exactly what he wants
stop dealing with wishy washy, indecisive, maybe/perhaps/kinda/sorta men
i love being a black girl! i love being a brown girl! i love all of my sisters so much, you are so beautiful and capable and amazing and we are so strong! look at all our sisters before us have accomplished and look at all of the things we’re accomplishing now! how amazing. such strength and beauty should be celebrated daily!
fun drinking game: take a shot of water every couple hours to make sure you’re healthy and hydrated